Closed swinging is a common form of swinging for those involved in the community. While this type of swinging sounds mild, it’s more closely related to open swinging than it is soft swinging. You may find couples at swingers meet ups that are only interested in closed swinging, or you may see people listing this type of activity on profiles for swingers online. It’s good to know what the term means before you agree to anything.
Sex In the Vicinity
In closed swinging, two partners split off from one another and have sex with others behind closed doors. Their partners are not in the room to see what is going on. The idea is that they can be more open with their sexual partners without other people in the room. Closed swinging can eventually lead to other activities, and it’s a good way to become introduced to the lifestyle without worrying about others watching and making you uncomfortable.
Setting Rules
Since your partner isn’t with you as you swing in a closed swinging situation, trust and rules reign supreme. You have to have trust that your partner is going to follow the rules. You also must have very clear rules for what is and is not allowed. Without this, open swinging will never work out.
